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Marriage Questionaire
The purpose of this questionaire is to determine compatibility of
two people who are considering marriage.

If you have met someone and are dating for more than just a "good for now"
relationship (or think you may have found "the one"), then you should be
answering these questions before you get in too deep with your time and
emotions.  If you are considering or talking about marriage and you haven't
discussed these question and concerns, then it is necessary to do so before
becoming engaged. It is better to learn the truth about yourself and the other
before planning a wedding.

Be completely honest when answering these questions, otherwise you are basing
a potential life and marriage with someone that begins with lies.

  1. What do you like about your partner?
  2. What do you like about yourself?
  3. What would you like to change about your partner?
  4. What would you like to change about yourself?
  5. What are your deal-breakers? (ex. smoking, drinking, road-rage, etc.)
  6. Have you had intercourse together? If so, how long did you know each
    other before you having intercourse?
  7. Do you know your partner's sexual history? (STD's, hetero/homosexual
    experiences, pregnancies, unprotected sex with how many partners, etc.)
  8. What are your long-term feelings about marriage? (til death do us part, or
    until someone better comes along, or until I bore of you)
  9. How important is it to keep the fire alive and are you willing to do the
    necessary work to keep the flames lit? (give examples)
  10. Are you willing to work at communicating with this one person to prevent
    problems from arising? (give examples)
  11. When issues should arise, as they undoubtedly will, are you willing and
    able to work through them in a loving manner utilizing marital counselors
    as needed? (give examples)
  12. Do you plan on having children? If so, how many?
  13. If you have difficulties conceiving, are you prepared to accept a childless
    marriage or would you want to utilize alternative methods of parenthood
    (adoption, foster parenting, IVF, etc.)? What is the maximum amount of
    money you are willing to spend or debt to accrue?
  14. What are your beliefs on discipline? Do these beliefs and practices change
    as the child matures during the various phases into adulthood? Do these
    beliefs and practices get altered based upon developmental challenges
    (physical/mental/emotional)?
  15. Do you know  your credit scores? If so, what are they? (Your partners?)
  16. What are your debts? How much are they? How long will it really take to
    pay them off?
  17. What monthly expenditures do you consider necessities? What is that
    monthly cost?
  18. What monthly expenditures do you consider niceties? What is that cost?
  19. What monthly expenditures do you consider frivolous? What is that cost?
  20. What percentage or dollar amount do you consider reasonable for a
    mortgage or rent? Utilities? Food? Pets? Children?